I was wondering if I could get some advice on what to do. Basically what happened was, I hooked up another man and then found out afterwords through text that he was engaged to a fiancé (woman), I identify as a gay man. I told the guy that I shouldn't have sex with him anymore and thought that was the end of it. Today, he kept texting me and asking me to meet him and I kept saying I don't know and that it isn't right, and a few minutes later I get a text saying he's downstairs and just wants to talk. I call him and said if we could talk on the phone and he asked if I could sign him into my dorm to talk in person. Dumbly I did so and basically one thing led to another, and I ended up dumbly having sex with him again as closure. What should I do... I feel awful that I let my moral principles down and more importantly, negatively affected his fiancé's life. What actions should I take now? I think I found his fiancé on facebook...should I let her know what happened, or will that compound the effect and ruin his potential marriage, and her life. Plus he'll know I was the one who messaged her, even if I make a fake account. I know I'm in the wrong, and I want to do something to make it right or to repent. Please help :( (More background: he's Chinese, and said he's only getting married to please his parents, so if I out him I'll possibly ruin his life, and his relationship to parents)
Submitted November 12, 2018 at 08:42AM by kc343810 https://ift.tt/2FhAaph
