Me (F, 18) and my ex (M, 21) broke up recently after 2 and a halfish years of being together and things didn't exactly end well between us. In fact, I'm pretty sure he hates me now. Ever since the break up I just keep thinking.. what if I had lost my virginity to him? People tell you to wait for someone special and that it's supposed to mean something.. but how do you know if someone is special? Because maybe some day they won't be. The more I think about it, the more it makes sense to me to not make a big deal out of losing my virginity. I think I would've really regretted losing it to someone who I cared about so much but that I don't mean anything to anymore. I think I would have regretted it more than losing it to someone I had something casual with. Our break up was dragged out..it needed to end but it was hard. Imagine how much harder and more complicated it would've been if we had lost our virginity to each other. So the day after we broke up I met a guy. We met at school and even though we've been on Christmas break for the past couple weeks we still text a little everyday. We've been on two dates and I know he's interested in me because he kissed me on the last one. I find him extremely attractive but honestly don't think we will amount to much. I wouldn't call him a fuckboy... but he definitely gives off fuckboy vibes sometimes. He seems like the type of guy who would break up with someone simply because he's bored and wants something new. On top of that he's graduating in the spring...he's staying for a masters but even still.. I'm pretty sure with him leaving soon he's looking for something casual. Is it wrong to want to casually sleep with him for a bit while it lasts? My ex lived in another country so ya girl hasn't been getting any for almost three years and on top of that I've been on birth control for a little bit now and my hormones are going insane.. also it's 2018 so I see nothing wrong with it. My question is... was waiting to lose your virginity worth the hype? Or do you think it's no big deal and overhyped? I'm genuinely looking forward to y'alls opinions but no slut shaming please..
Submitted December 30, 2018 at 10:47AM by spacebound9700 http://bit.ly/2VixonB
