So this is probably going to sound real messy, but please hang on.
So i started a new job a couple of months ago and after i got settle in and all i started noticing this pretty girl who was working there. She was a couple of years younger than me and absolutely the prettiest girl i have ever met. Since i know most companys dont accept flirts and all i didnt really think about it much, but later on i started feeling like she was checking me out. She was always glancing at me and whenever our eyes met she would keep looking and smile.
Soon after that i finally decided to talk to her, only to find out that she is moving to Australia in a few months. Even though these news really hit me hard, i continued to flirt with and it felt like it was going really well, i mean there were so many signs there. Fast forward to a couple of days before the christmas holidays. I finally get the courage to tell how i felt about her, telling her that she is indeed the prettiest girl i have ever met and that i really think that she is brave to move to Australia for over a years time, and that i would have really liked the chance to get to know her better. But instead of the answer i wanted, she told me that she actually liked another guy. I always knew there was a risk that she wouldnt be interested since she was moving away, but the fact that she liked another guy really makes no sence to me. I mean what was all the flirting for if she had feelings for another guy?
But the thing that really confuses me now is that it still feels like she wants my attention or something. She is always around and i can still see her looking over at me, even though i never really meet her eyes the same way anymore, i mean she rejected me? Surely i should respect her feelings and let her have her space at work? I havent really talked to her since i told her how i felt, a couple hello really. And at the end of todays shift i could see her looking over at me, and she looked really sad or something. It made me wonder if she really had feelings for another guy, or if she actually was interested in me but was too shy to admit it and was afraid cause she is moving away.
I would really appreciate anyones thoughts about it, cause i am confused like hell. And sorry if this seems messy or anything isnt clear in the text.
Submitted January 23, 2019 at 08:06AM by Swede_94RG http://bit.ly/2FMJBfV