For context: I am female. I had this “aquaintence” let’s call him Jay. I wasn’t that close to him besides a few conversations in school and about our hobbies. He was nice and a great guy. I was and still am very dense when it comes to romantic advances. Jay asked me out and I rejected him, I wasn’t looking for a romantic partner at the moment. I was going through some major problems with my mental health state (aka just being diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and adhd) and I needed to get all of my mental problems sorted out. I wanted to focus on myself for once instead of other people. On top of that I had just recently started to question my sexuality, and deemed myself biromantic ace. (However I do prefer women over men). It’s been a few months and we’re really close friends. We chat all the time and spend time with each other in out of school. I think I’ve developed feelings for him (rather not sexual but romantic). I just don’t know if he’s moved on or not. I don’t want to ruin this friendship because I enjoy his company. I want to him out but a part of me is doubting I’ll be a good partner. I’m especially caught up in school because I’m in honors and AP courses and I feel as if school is more important than a romantic partner (especially since I plan to specialize in a branch within the medical field.) However I’ve never met someone who is humble, nice, shared the same sense of humor, smart academic wise, and has many of the same interests of mine. I don’t know if I want a relationship (partly because I’ve never been in one.) I don’t want to stop looking for someone, I’m quite young. I’m confused and I don’t know what to do. Should I ask him out? Do any of you have advice?
(Excuse if there’s any grammatical errors I’m really sleep deprived right now)
Submitted February 21, 2019 at 11:44AM by ConfusedBiromanicMF https://ift.tt/2BLryTD
