Is this abuse?
Is this abuse?
I am not sure if this is a crime or this is abuse. With few people to talk to, I rely on your judgement. I am 22 years old Male, and when I was 19 my alcoholic father passed away. He was always a good man to me. Immediately after my mother and seven years older sister began being hostile and agresssive with me. They made me feel guilty for my dads death and that I didn’t deserve to get into a good university which was my way out, making my sister jealous. - They began forcing me to sleep with my mother and one night she put her hand on my stomach and I felt uncomfortable and pushed her hand away and then she placed her hand back on me. The atmosphere was strange and it was like she was going to have sex with me and I felt paralysed. Nothing happened. - They began forcing me to drink alcohol on many occasions against my consent. - They ultimately forced me to work in a bar serving drunks all summer as some punishment, against my consent. They were relentless and aggressive in making this happen. My sisters friend is a bar manager and my sister would come in to work to ensure I had not left. - I got into a good uni so I thought this would end, but it continued and continued and now I just want your help or guidance. - My mother didn’t support me getting help from my uni in the first semester refusing proof of my dads death so they could help me. - My mother did not support me living in a flat with friends and instead isolating me by putting me in a one-bed flat that is free to live in as it was purchased with my dads apartment money from his death. - Lonely in the flat, I bought a rope for attention to wake my mother up and have heart-to-heart and feel compassion. She did the opposite and forced me to go the GP and forced her way into the meeting against my consent, and forced the NHS to provide a service called IHTT which administers drugs to people at home, despite the GP being very surprised at IHTT being offered and reassuring my mother that I am fine and not to interfere I was 20 at the time. This is where my story gets worse and I became a victim of institutionalism of psychiatry and my mother in collusion with the doctor forced drugs on my against my consent for a year, drugging me out of university for a year and traumatising me with myofaschial pain. She beat me, shouted at me and made feel guilty for my dads death. I bought her £500 worth of Christmas presents under the subordination I was in and to make her stop. She treats my sister like a goddess.
The GOOD. (This is relatively recent) - my mother recently put in money for a new laptop - my mother funded a summer school as I couldn’t live with her and the damage it did to my career - My mother funds my therapy - my mother drops food at my student accommodation as I’m depressed and eating poorly
Submitted January 20, 2020 at 05:08AM by louvre360 https://ift.tt/36bwUDO