Im not reddit savvy, sorry
I reached out the first time and received great support with my father post, and got some support when my landlord decided to go back on what he said about having a dog.
I thought my Man and I were on the same page. I fully believed we were on the same track, we would support eachother no matter what.
We are in a moment that is both horrible and enlightening at the same time. Enlightening for me not him ..... This is why.
I am sadly desperate for any advice. I don't care if it's supporting what i said or supporting what he has done. I just need some solid advice on how to move on.
So here is the issue;
Is it normal for a storage company to change ownership without the actual owner there?
Things haven't been great in my relationship. I packed some things and was about to leave for this place when; I was informed that he had it changed to his name.
Basically I was walking out the door to my loaded car and he yelled out, good luck getting into my storage unit. Apparently he went down and changed ownership into his name, changed the lock on the unit, and changes the passcode into the place.
I had this unit YEARS (early 2000s, I graduated in 2005 and needed a storage unit soon after) before this happened. They never called me. Never fucking asked me.
Not only is this wrong on so many business levels.. it's horrific on a personal level. I now have to talk to him, someone I never ever want to see, to gain access to the storage unit that only has my shit in it.
I have talked to some people and they said
" this should make me feel good' "He cared enough to do try and support you" "You're not going to get any better then him" "Finally a man is taking charge in your life. Embrace it. Love it. You need it"
This brings me to my question..
How do I not only calmly react to this but how do I go about getting my storage unit back? I never gave permission... Never asked him to take over.
Where the fuck do I go now?
Submitted August 30, 2020 at 05:04AM by nmnickel https://ift.tt/2QA7n1I