*if you don't want to hear the backstory listen to the "*" portion further down*
This might be a long story, so prepare yourself. Back in my senior (HS) year, I had a friend who was dating this girl. When they started he was a senior (HS), and she was a sophomore (HS). They were intimate, and everything was all good. They were madly in love with each other, spending a lot of time, and everything was alright—butterfly and sunshine from here.
As time passed, they grew more intimate with each other and were doing things high school students do, aka sex. It's not surprising that they were having sex in a nine so month relationship, and it was consensual. She wanted it, and he wanted it all good, or so I suppose.
Speed up the time, and it's November of the following year, and he's a Freshman in college, and she was a junior in hs. Things were getting roughed with long-distance as he was an hour away from everyone else. So in high school, all of his friends, also my friends, keep seeing his girlfriend with this other guy. She claimed that it was her "guy friend" and they spend time together. A lot of time.
It all sounds believable at the time. Then it starts escalating when the "guy friend" or his girlfriend would have hickeys, so as bro's, we notified him. He began to get anxious and insecure about his relationship and started to track her location. They had each other's location shared before, so he would see that she wasn't home but at another person's house (his house).
The following day or two, he came back home and talked with her. She confessed that she started having feelings for this other guy and was doing things with him. They later broke up, and my friend was in great pain as his first relationship shattered. He didn't eat for a while, do anything, other depression stuff, and his family was concerned.
My friend and his now ex-GF talked for a bit, and he requested if he can have the stuff he gave her back like hoodies, shirts, etc. She agreed that she should give it back, but she also adds to the text, "Are we going to do anything?" (sexual wise)
He replied, "we don't have to if you don't want to."
Their conversation kept going, and it turned into a horny convo between them, and he said if she wanted to do something, wear the pink shorts he has gotten her. He bought her these shorts that he liked to see her in, I guess. Fast forward, they met each other to return the clothes he gave her.
She put the clothes in the car but sat in the car looking like she was waiting for something. My friend was confused, but he knew what she was waiting for. As time went on, about 2 mins - 5 mins, nothing still happened. She later revealed that she was indeed wearing the pink shorts under her sweatpants, and I'm guessing from there they proceeded to do it (I stopped listening to this portion because it was very explicit and I didn't want my virgin ears to hear it).
So yeah, they had broken up sex and kept in mind that she has already started a committing relationship with the other guy. Now, this is where the rape accusation comes up...
Boy 1(Friend, Girl(Boy'1 gf), boy 2(girl2 new bf)
* Boy 1 and girl have been dating for almost a year or two (ill ask for the accurate time, but it was def about a year) and they broke up because girl was seeing another person but was also doing intricate stuff with boy2. She was going to boy2's house and getting hickeys while she was in a relationship with boy 1. They later broke up, and boy 1 was depressed and sad while girl was already in another committed relationship with boy2. Boy1 wanted girl to return the clothes he gave her, and girl agreed. She returns the clothes, but before she returned it, they had a horny conversation with each other saying if they were going to do anything. Boy 1said if she wanted to do anything, wear these shorts he got her. She got to his car and wore the shorts and they proceeded to do stuff. Fast forward two years later. Girl posted a story on Instagram saying he raped her and manipulated her to do sexual things during their relationship and raped her after they broke up. Things are out of hand, and a lot of people are starting to hate on him and calling him a rapist*
My point of view and what i heard. She wanted to do something in the car post-breakup and mid intercourse she decided she should stop but didn't say anything or walked out of the car. She also hinted that she wanted to do something and even wore the shorts he told her to wear if she wanted to have intercourse. I don't want to call it to rape in the car bc she gave the consent with the shorts, but I don't know. Also, she claimed he manipulated her through the entire relationship, but we found old letters she wrote to him saying how much she loved him at the time. I don't think this is necessary to mention, but he dug the letters when they broke up because he was heartbroken, and we went on a treasure hunt yesterday to prove he didn't manipulate her, and we found it. Like it was out of a movie lol. But yeah, I want to know your opinion on this situation, and if you guys want to read her side and his defense, ill post it. Also, a screenshot of their convo b4 they met up to return the clothes. Dw, I have permission from him to share this stuff.
Also, there's a whole social media wave of this whole topic where I'm from.
Submitted June 25, 2020 at 04:53AM by shangnang https://ift.tt/2Np5TGh